Sex advice from gay men
When I was little, my father would drag my sister and me out in the cold morning in camouflage outfits and orange hats to sit with him in a deer stand and practice shooting his gun. This was a necessity for a young boy in the South. While his tutelage never stuck, he might be surprised to learn that I still grew up to be a hunter. All I need is a drawstring shoulder bag carrying my keys, wallet, cell phone, and a douching bulb for emergency visits to the nearest bathroom. Depending on the environment — a dive bar versus a dance club, a bathhouse or a play party — I might be wearing more clothes or less, but the target is the same: men and anal sex.
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For the most part, gay men are like everyone else on the dating scene. They're looking for affection , attention and love. Like their straight counterparts, gay men also desire connection, companionship and commitment. Unfortunately, the gay dating pool is viciously competitive. So, instead of fighting over the newest man meat on Grindr, I recommend these practical tips for gay men:.
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Unlike the "top" , the partner being penetrated during gay anal sex is referred to as the "bottom. Some associate a gay bottom with being the less dominate partner in a sexual or romantic relationship, but that's not always the case. Being the sexual bottom or bottoming is a preference and may differ from established dominance roles. Anal Sex Basics : Gay men aren't naturally born to have anal intercourse.
I think part of my fascination with the topic was directly linked to my strong need to please the guys I had sex with. Sure, you could look at videos to see how other people got pounded but deep inside, you always knew they were acting. Who would have thought gay acceptance carried such perks? Can I tell you a secret?